Help please...!!!.. this is a long 1 but i really need help...?

You both need to talk to each other. When talking to him use such verbage of how you feel. don't be accusatory. Don't say, You did this or that... Say, It upset me when you did not... Talk things out. If he will not listen, then he will never listen and it may be time to move on. Pleanty of other boys out there who will treat you like the queen you should be.