Are any of you ladies dating men who arent all that attractive physically but who have wonderful personalities

This year I have dated quite a few guys, in the hopes of finding the right one-the perfect combination of good looks and wonderful personality. But I just havent been able to find it! All the great looking ones have treated me REALLY badly, and now I'm back with my ex (who i was in a relationship with for 3 years and whom i am now back together with). He is so damned sweet and lovely and treats me the way I should be treated and he is giving me everything I ever needed from a relationship, but he's not much of a looker. He still turns me on, and there are things about him that i find really attractive, but he's not as good looking as other guys i have seen (then again they treated me SO badly). He has put on weight since i was last with him and i told him (in the kindest way possible) that i'd like him to lose weight so i could find him more physically attractive, but he doesnt seem to be doing anything about it. He'd be a real stunner if he lost a stone or two.